Sunday, July 1, 2012

29

Well folks. I am 29. It was a good day and I have zero complaints. Jesse's birthday was 18 days before mine. If I was a good blogger and wife I would have blogged about his day too. But I am no where near a good blogger as of lates...and well...my wifery skills could use some steppin' up too. Word.

So yeah. We both have June birthdays. And we both decided it was best to not exchange gifts this year. Well we said we wouldn't spend money on gifts. I found a loophole by scoring a free bike for Jesse. My friend had one he didn't use and it was a really nice one. So I got Jesse a sweet sizzle bike but didn't spend a dime. And then for my birthday Jesse put gas in my car and bought me a new bike helmet. So he broke the birthday buying rule. Buuuuuuut....I forgave him. How can I not accept a new hot pink bike helmet and tank full o' petrol? I simply couldn't not accept such perfect prezzies.

The weekend was full of fun. Good ol' fashion laid back fun. I didn't even shower on my birthday. Usually I get all gussied up and go out with friends. Nope. This year was super chill and laid back. Bike rides, wine and beer, swimming, s'mores...perfection.

I will leave you with my status update from today on the Facebooks. I am so grateful. Birthdays can make you grateful. Or they can stress you out. I have allowed my birthday to stress me out in the past. So many times. And it's dumb. Oh so dumb. This year I decided to be grateful. Ok. I was kinda a birthday b!tch for a few moments. But it was short lived. Promise.


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18 comments:

Melissa said...

Happy birthday to both of you! I cry every year on my birthday, it seems like. Probably from too high of expectations not being met, just like you.

Sorry you didn't get a surprise pony. I've been waiting for mine for 20 years.

Belle Vierge said...

My best friend has promised a flash mob for when I get married. Let's see if she can follow through.

Glad you had a good birthday! :D

Miranda said...

Happy birthday! I seem to have high expectations for my bday too and end up crying! Hope it's a good day for you!

jes @ twosmuppies said...

happy birthday!!! i try not to have as little expectations as i can for my birthday. that way, everything is a good thing.

Whiskey Tango Foxtrot said...

Happy birthday!! :) I always expect perfection on days like that, and when you expect it, evreything goes wrong. So I feel ya there!

Meg @ Mr.C and Me said...

happy birthday yet again and i'm so glad you had a great day! :)

haha and an 'amen' and 'i hear ya' on "my wifery skills could use some steppin' up too". our apt. looks like it when through a bear mauling, mr.c ran out of work shirts (b/c i forgot to wash some), and about a zillion other reasons lol

Jennifer said...

Happy birthday!! It sounds like a great day and your rule sounds like me and my husband...I would come up with something free and he would break the rule. :)

the blogivers said...

Happy belated birthday to you! I am also guilty of having too high expectations in the past, but I also felt like I was growing up this year when my 29th birthday wasn't as big of a deal to me. Laid back birthdays are the way to go :)

Lauren Talon said...

Sounds like a great day! I agree. Birthdays have a way of upping our expectations and they're hardly ever met. Instead of worrying about who was coming out or making an effort to celebrate with me, I realized hanging out with my husband was the only important part :D Glad to hear you had an awesome birthday lady! Next up - one year wedding anniversary!

Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weird said...

My birthday was pretty amazing last year - a weekend in Milwaukee and a trip to Six Flags. That'll be pretty hard to beat this year. I'm thinking maybe Ren Fest!

I'm glad you had a good birthday free of tears!

Brenda Wilkerson said...

I almost always feel disappointed on my birthday too. Glad this one was good! :)

Miss Jewells said...
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Miss Jewells said...

Happy belated birthday! Glad to hear you had a good one. I agree, birthdays can be tough sometimes!

DJ said...

I mentioned flash mobs a few days before your birthday!! Doesn't that count?!

Hope the first week of being 29 was fabulous!

Catherine said...

Happy (belated) birthday! Cute blog, btw.

Catherine (your newest follower)
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Catherine said...

Happy (belated) birthday! Cute blog, btw.

Catherine (your newest follower)
FEST (food, style & travel)

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Charisma said...

I agree that birthdays can be really stressful. I think you are right though, it is so much better to just relax and enjoy. Glad your day was awesome! Happy belated birthday!